As Cate Blanchett turns 56, here are 6 reminders why she’s a bona fide lesbian icon
Cate Blanchett posing during a photocall at the 63rd International Cannes Film Festival in Cannes, France. (Photo by Mustafa Yalcin/Anadolu via Getty Images)
Cate Blanchett posing during a photocall at the 63rd International Cannes Film Festival in Cannes, France. (Photo by Mustafa Yalcin/Anadolu via Getty Images)
Cate Blanchett turned 56 yesterday (14 May 2025), if you can believe it: she doesn’t look a day over 40. Sapphics everywhere no doubt held elaborate Cate Blanchett Day parties to celebrate their beloved queen.
But why is Cate Blanchett such a lesbian icon, despite not actually being a lesbian? To find out why she has been welcomed into the arms of queer women across the globe, we have to start with her Oscar-winning performance of a repressed lesbian woman.
Carol, released in 2015, garnered six Oscar nominations, including Best Actress nods for Blanchett and her on-screen lesbian lover Rooney Mara. Cate Blanchett, lesbian icon, was born around the same time. It is a title she has also earned campaigning for same-sex marriage, lip-syncing in the Stonewall Inn and being a general all-round delight.
In 2020 TV series Mrs America she took on the role of conservative campaigner Phyllis Schlafly, who fought against advances in women’s rights in the 1970s and was a later opponent of same-sex marriage – despite the fact that her own son was gay.
But that didn’t take away from Blanchett’s hard-won reputation as a lesbian icon. Here, we remember six times the star proved she was an ally and muse for the LGBTQ+ community.
1. Cate Blanchett studied for her role in Carol by reading banned ‘girl-on-girl’ books

Blanchett’s Oscar-nominated turn as Carol Aird is the main reason she is considered a lesbian icon. The actor is reluctant to talk too much about how she prepares for roles — she prefers to allow her films to do the talking — but in a 2015 Variety interview, she gave some details of how she prepared for her role in Carol.
When asked about her research for the film, which is set in 1950s New York, Blanchett said she read “a lot of girl-on-girl books from the period” to prepare herself — which is, of course, the best way to prepare for any lesbian role.
2. Her adorable friendship with queer actor Sarah Paulson is what dreams are made of
@todayshow #SarahPaulson and #CateBlanchett are the chaotic duo we never knew we needed! The acclaimed actors sat down with #HodaKotb to discuss #Oceans8, but things quickly went off the rails, leaving them (and us) in tears 😂 #TODAYShow ♬ original sound – TODAY Show
Blanchett has starred alongside queer actor Sarah Paulson on a number of occasions, but their chemistry isn’t limited to the big screen.
The pair, who have appeared together in Carol and Ocean’s 8, had a viral moment when they appeared on The Today Show in 2018 and took the opportunity to have as much fun as possible. In the extraordinary clip, the interviewer was unable to get a word in as they gave each other a merciless roasting.
When Carol came up in conversation, Paulson jokingly made fun of Blanchett for failing to win an Oscar for her performance. “She tried. She wore dresses. It was a whole thing but she did not win.”
3. Cate Blanchett schooled Jimmy Kimmel on the realities of gay and lesbian sex like the true ally she is

When the late night talk show host awkwardly tried to ask Blanchett about filming same-sex love scenes in Carol, it was immediately clear the question wasn’t going to go down well. He called it a “tricky subject” and Blanchett was quick to take him down a peg or two.
“Yes, Jimmy, girls have been having sex with girls and boys have been having sex with boys for a long, long time,” she replied.
4. She has been a firm advocate for same-sex marriage, melting lesbian hearts in the process

Cate Blanchett has been a long time advocate for same-sex marriage, and has expressed confusion as to why anyone would oppose queer people getting married. In a 2015 interview with ABC Australia, she said same-sex marriage would have “no impact on anyone apart from the people it impacts upon”.
“So I find it quite bewildering that it’s so complicated for people.”
When Australia had its public vote on same-sex marriage, the actor recorded a video message for the “Vote Yes” campaign urging people to get out and vote.
“Love never hurt anyone,” she declared in the video.
5. Her general lesbian aesthetic has not gone unnoticed
Blanchett is a straight woman, but the queer community often raves about her so-called “lesbian aesthetic”.
She has quite the following of lesbian fans, and many people were left with butterflies in their stomachs after she she did this photoshoot with Nicole Kidman.
6. That time she dressed in drag and performed a sickeningly good lip-sync in the Stonewall Inn
@cateblanchettac Cate Blanchett performing in a drag show at Stonewall Inn in New York City. Song by Dusty Springfield. Link to original video by Aurora Sexton in the comments. #cateblanchett #stonewallinn #lgbtq #wlw #sapphic #lesbian #givenchy #lesbiansoftiktok #dragshow #marlenedietrich #dragqueen #dragperformance #aurorasexton ♬ You Don't Own Me – DUSTY SPRINGFIELD
Cate Blanchett is clearly aware of just how many queer people love a good lip-sync — and with that knowledge, she took to the stage of New York’s Stonewall Inn and left us all speechless.
In the impressive performance, Blanchett lip-synched to Dusty Springfield’s version of “You Don’t Own Me” and later performed “Hello” by Adele. After she finished her time on stage, she hung around afterwards for photos with drag queens.
As if it wasn’t already perfect enough, the performance helped raise money for a charity that aims to end gun violence. Happy birthday, Cate, from all of your adoring LGBTQ+ fans.
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