Ask the Aunties: I’m genderqueer, what should I wear to a wedding?

PinkNews brings you Ask the Aunties, where our fabulous aunties answer your dilemmas.

From dating to telling your pals your pronouns, no dilemma is left unanswered.

Lee Gray, Karnage Kills and Rhys Hollis are the queer agony aunts you always wanted.

The last episode saw the aunties answer a dilemma from a bisexual woman frustrated with her cisgender, heterosexual boyfriend who just didn’t seem to care about queer issues. You can watch the aunties’ reactions here.

In this episode, Lee, Karnage and Rhys read a letter from someone who identifies as genderqueer and is struggling with picking an outfit for a formal occasion. How can you dress up without dressing heteronormatively?

Here’s their dilemma:

What can you wear to a posh wedding as a guest if you’re genderqueer?

The options seem to be fancy suit or dress + hat, but are there any other options?

From, anonymous

Watch the video above to see the aunties—unfiltered—advice.

Lee Gray is a YouTuber and part-time podcaster with Karnage Kills – together they produce a podcast about black queer men’s experiences living and dating in London, called Wolves in the City.

Karnage is a rapper and grime artist from north London, regularly performing on the queer scene. You can also listen to his tracks on SoundCloud.

Rhys Hollis is a drag and cabaret performer, and this year’s winner of LIPSYNC1000.

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