Mormon leader: Only God can say whether our policies cause gay teen suicides
A Mormon church leader has claimed that he will find out āon judgement dayā whether his churchās homophobic policies cause teen suicide.
The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, commonly known as the Mormon Church, revealed harsh new policies in its updated guidebooks late last year.
The new rules state that gay people who marry are āapostatesā ā meaning they are viewed as having abandoned the Church.
The Church also affirmed that all children living with same-sex parents or guardians will be barred from being baptised or becoming Church members, unless they ādisavowā their parentsā relationship.
LGBT Mormon support group Mama Dragons claimed last month that 32 young church members had died by suicide since the policy was unveiled.
However, Church Elder Dallin H. Oaks, said he ācanāt answerā questions on the issue while appearing on the Mormon Stories podcast.
According to Towleroad, he was asked by an audience member: āLess than a year ago, right here in Washington, DC, my friend killed himself.
āHe was Mormon and gay. Youāve gone on record that the church does not give apologies.
āDoes religious freedom absolve you from responsibility in the gay Mormon suicide crisis?ā
Elder Oaks responded: āI think thatās a question that will be answered on judgment day. I canāt answer that beyond what has already been said.
āI know that those tragic events happen. And itās not unique simply to the question of sexual preference.
He continued: āThere are other cases where people have taken their own lives and blamed a church ā my church ā or a government, or somebody else for their taking their own lives, and I think those things have to be judged by a higher authority than exists on this earth, and I am ready to be accountable to that authority, but I think part of what my responsibility extends to, is trying to teach people to be loving, and civil and sensitive to one another so that people will not feel driven, whatever the policy disagreements, whatever the rules of the church, or the practices of a church, or any other organization, if they are administered with kindness, at the highest level or at the level of the congregation or the ward, they wonāt drive people to take those extreme measures; thatās part of my responsibility to teach that. And beyond that, I will be accountable to higher authority for that. Thatās the way I look on that.
āNobody is sadder about a case like that than I am. Maybe thatās a good note to end on.ā
Maybe, maybe not.